Also noticeably absent at the event? The American Idol judge's wedding ring.
"We have come to an amicable conclusion on all matters," Lopez and Anthony said in a joint statement Friday. "It is a painful time for all involved, and we appreciate the respect of our privacy at this time."
The couple are parents to three-year-old twins Max and Emme. As recently as January, Lopez gushed on the Ellen DeGeneres Show about having kids with Anthony. "As soon as I had the babies, I thought to myself, 'I want to do this a thousand more times…' I love this. This is life."
Friends for years, Lopez and Anthony dated briefly in the 1990s. They stepped out again as a couple in early 2004, shortly after Lopez's broken engagement from Ben Affleck, and in the midst of Anthony's divorce from first wife, former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres. They wed at a quiet home wedding in June 2004.
Lopez (who famously dated Sean Combs in addition to Affleck), had been married twice before: to restauranteur Ojani Noa (they split in 1998) and former backup dancer Cris Judd, to whom she was married from 2001 to 2003.