Costar Tamra Barney, 43, is less diplomatic. "That's so f-cked up," she says.
Smiley's girlfriend, Gretchen Rossi, 33, overhears their conversation and decides to step in. "Why are you trying to start sh-t?" Rossi asks a male partygoer. "I wasn't up there when he said that, and actually, he and I got in a very big fight about it. So until you know the actual information, I suggest you shut up about it."