But all was not well in the Affleck-Lopez household. The actor was caught in stripper scandal in Canada, where he was filming a movie. He reportedly partied at a strip club and then brought the ladies over to his rented house in Vancouver. Jennifer stood by her man and the couple prepared to walk down the aisle in September 2003. At the last minute the groom got cold feet and the wedding was canceled. After trying to work it out, Bennifer finally came to an end in January 2004. "I was no longer in control of my life," Ben later said. "I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route and got sucked into all that publicity."