"I figure it out. I'm proud that with lives that are somewhat complicated, [Matthew and I] keep figuring it out. It's incumbent upon us to do so. We don't talk about our marriage a lot, which is probably wise. There are so many other things in our lives that take precedence over the splitting of the atom of our marriage. We have this marvelous family, and my son and our daughters are in love with Matthew, and I think it's so wonderful. There's always a moment when you see him through their eyes, and it's really seductive -- I think that's really great for a marriage. But we don't spend a lot of time discussing our relationship. We've figured it out, and I certainly don't want to be anywhere else."