The 29-year-old Nordegren -- who is rumored to be consulting L.A. based divorce lawyer Sorrell Trope -- "is not rushing to divorce, however," the source says. "She's going to take her sweet time. She wants all the dirty laundry to be out on the table before she signs anything."
The new issue of Us Weekly (on newsstands now) reports that neighbors at their Isleworth gated community in Windermere, Fla., are buzzing that Nordegren (who has recently been photographed without her wedding ring) may already have kicked Tiger out.
"He's been coming by in the early evenings only for their counseling and therapy," one resident tells Us Weekly.
On Wednesday, it was reported that Nordegren and the kids -- Sam, 2, and Charlie, 10 months -- won't be spending the holiday with Woods, who has been named Athlete of the Decade by The Associated Press.